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    [INFJ] Used Up Giver

    I am in the process of regaining my 'giver mojo' as you put it. It has taken 3 long months to start to feel again. Meditation, writing, and playing my guitar have allowed me to focus the caregiver inside on myself. It seems that it is easier to help others than to care for myself. Setting...
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    Hello Heart seeks... Unable to see your msg... Chat would be fine

    Hello Heart seeks... Unable to see your msg... Chat would be fine
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    [INFJ] Paranoia

    Well said. I once again ignored my feelings and am now suffering the consequences. I have struggled to give others the benefit of the doubt and am repeatedly disappointed. NO MORE! I would not label this paranoia per se, but cynicism on my part. I am weary of being hurt. I am striving to...
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    Nice guy vs Bad Boy

    @jimtalor no harm no foul. Going through a real sh*t storm today. Sorry if I offended you.
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    Nice guy vs Bad Boy

    The world is not black and white it is grey. To simplify the "nice guy'/'bad boy' genres is a flawed premise and a bit naive. The only motives we can truly know are those that are ours alone.
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    The Keirsey/"Official" MBTI (70qs)

    INFP - the Healer You scored 0% I to E, 13% N to S, 14% F to T, and 74% J to P! You are more introverted than extroverted. You are more intuitive than observant, you are more feeling based than thinking based, and you prefer to go with the flow rather than having a plan. Your type can best be...
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    What's your Love Language?

    Your Scores 9 Words of Affirmation 7 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 4 Acts of Service 9 Physical Touch Now that you know your love language, here
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    What is your birthday horoscope?

    PISCES INFORMATION FOR MARCH 16 You should embrace: Sensitivity, artistic integrity, miracles You should avoid: Compromise, being controlled, sexual excesses A Pisces born on March 16 possesses an inner vision and is able to integrate his or her psychic sensitivity with his or her everyday...
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    NCIS tv show

    West Wing had terrific writers roughly the same caliber as NCIS. West Wing was more cerebral, but both shows have wonderful character interaction.
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    NCIS tv show

    One of my favorites as well. Mark Harmon = INFJ I wish I could find reruns of West Wing
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    Jesus said "No one can come to the Father except through me". Discuss.

    Interesting read the bible is. Take a peek at the apocryphal books for further enlightenment. The bible as most christians know it is the result of the Roman emperor Constantine wanting to consolidate his power. (Excepting the Greek Orthodox Bible) Christ's message was one of love and...
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    Heart Test (OKCupid)

    Patron Saint's Heart You are 50% Independent, 50% Idealistic, 45% Intimate, and 90% Indulgent! The Patron Saint's Heart Dependent, Realistic, Passionate, Indulgent You are the most protective of hearts, the Patron Saint. You crave love and value harmony with your match. You are passionate...
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    How People Go About Revealing Unpleasantries

    I'm new here and not used to a lack of naivete. Nice not to have to explain or make qualifications....
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    How People Go About Revealing Unpleasantries

    It has been my experience that the whole "sandwich" process, or the unrelated pleasantries thing is more about the person delivering the criticism than about easing the blow to the recipient. Ego stroking always begins at home. (Jaded huh?)
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    Hello Heart seeks. Second generation Canuk here. Frenchguy is a nick name that has stuck...

    Hello Heart seeks. Second generation Canuk here. Frenchguy is a nick name that has stuck through the years.