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Hey Man, thanks so much for your thoughts! Sorry for my late reply; I've been busy. And No, this was not presumptive or offensive at all. Yes I would say, I have a good understanding of boundaries, but more towards the logical end, rather than sophisticated / cultural understanding. I...

To put what I said above in simpler words, I am willing to respect boundaries, as I want others to feel comfortable! However, no matter how many boundaries they set, that will NOT change how attached I am to them as a person. Honestly, someone could tell me that they only have the time to...

BINGO!!!!! I think you pretty much explained my situation. Here's my take: I think I do understand what is wrong, and what is happening, but my main issue is that when I think logically, it just doesn't make much sense to me. Here are the questions and thoughts that come to my mind when I...

Good question. This is going off topic, but when I was young growing up as a kid, I always had these weird crushes on older ladies and wanted friendships with them. Often crushes on ladies in leadership positions. And surprisingly, many of them thought it was cute and kind of reciprocated my...

Also on another note, only 1 person has ever completely cut me off permanently in my life. The rest just set strict boundaries because I made them uncomfortable. And the main reason why that one person has cut me off is because after she set strict boundaries that I thought were very unjust and...

Understood! And maybe I phrased it wrong but all that behavior I described above: snooping, trying to interact with family / friends was BEFORE she set boundaries. That’s the reason she did set those boundaries. I was only 12 back then, but I think her point was I should’ve known better not to...

Part of the reason why I’m hyper fixating is because this sort of thing has happened a lot with me in the past. This is NOT the first time it’s happened, and I literally have a list of around 15 people written down somewhere that I’ve made uncomfortable unintentionally over the years, without...

Also not to mention as I’ve been processing and thinking about this more, I did kind of really latch on to Elizabeth, Jennifer, and Rebecca anytime I’d see them at mutual events and church services. I don’t think they minded me sitting with them, but I’d always want to talk with them from the...

Yeah I figured that. To be honest, I don’t know anyone who does that unless they’re already extremely close friends, and even then, it’s not super common. I think when I do this for people that I don’t know very well and seek connections with, it might come across as kind of stalkerish to some...

Thanks man! I do plan to leave her and all those people alone at least for the time being and near future. Honestly I probably don’t even have to go this far as they all said they’d gladly say hello to me at common events, but I’ve actually changed my routine a bit and stayed away from a few...

Yeah, I just feel that I didn't have enough contact with Elizabeth for that to have actually been the case, unless it was somewhat or just part of it. To be honest, I am afraid I might've spooked her and her friends without intending to, by what you just described above. I'll tell you, it was...

I understand, but it's easier said than done. And we cannot forget that I do have feelings for Elizabeth, so it's not easy to just move on like that. I mean I am trying to, but for me sometimes I really need time to evaluate situations before moving on to learn from them. It's not in my nature...

One thing that does come to mind is that while I didn’t communicate this to any of these people, shortly after the situation happened, I made a social media post about moving to a different area within the next few months. If an INFJ like Elizabeth felt that it was because she hurt me that I...

INFJ’s, is it typical for an INFJ to feel very guilty and struggle with their feelings after presumably ending a friendship with someone? I just realized that very recently, Elizabeth blocked me on Spotify. It seems pretty weird to me because she didn’t block me anywhere else on any other...

Also, when Mike was talking to me, he told me that he didn’t like the way all those girls handled everything and told me that they should’ve been direct with me. He flat out told me that he’s not going to be the middle man, and what he was telling me was his advice, but he did say that he would...